Sunday, March 30, 2014

Tie One On

To get this story started, let me give you a little background.  I work for Nouveau Eyewear and we are a licensee of Van Heusen.  You might have seen their men's shirts and ties at JCPenneys and Kohls.

I received this FedEx package at work addressed to me from PVH (the parent company for Van Heusen).  I thought it was odd, but not out of the ordinary.  I thought the tie was for us to use in our display at Vision Expo (a trade show in New York).  The tie would need to be sent overnight for the show and I had already sent two, so I wasn't sure it was all that necessary.  So, I sent this picture to my boss and asked him if he really wanted the tie sent.  The entire time I kept thinking, "that tie sure would match our Easter outfits."

I noticed there was a packing list attached to the outside of the envelope, so I cracked it open and realized that it was Jonathan's Easter tie!  So, I guess that tie really did match our Easter outfits.  I had to text my boss back and let him know that he couldn't use the tie for our Van Heusen display. I guess JCPenney was out of stock and had it dropshipped from PVH.  And, that is what I get for ordering our Easter clothes online and for not paying attention.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Fortenberry Four Freak Shows


This picture cracks me up!  We look like a bunch of goofs.  She asked Jonathan to sit up nice and tall, so I guess that required a dorky grin.  My hair is whipping around.  Don't ask me why Fred has his hands between his legs!  Jess looks the best out of all of us - she just a little bit of a frown going on.  This is just how we roll.  I am going to lovingly call us the Fortenberry Four Freak Shows.

Monday, March 24, 2014

Steadfast and Immovable

This is my favorite 14 year old.  He is quirky, fun and a rule follower.

Jonathan loves sodas.  His favorites are Sprite and Fanta Orange.  Fred typically buys whatever the grocery store has on sale.  There was one week that he bought Sunkist.  Jonathan was so angry with his dad for buying Sunkist instead of Fanta, because Sunkist has caffeine.  I listened to his rant, but didn't really contribute much to the conversation.  Saturday, Jonathan was looking for a drink and found root beer.  I heard him ask if Barq's has caffeine.  The answer was yes.  Again, Jonathan was upset and disgusted that we had caffeine to drink.  Jessie and Fred drink a little caffeine and Jonathan and I do not.  I told Jonathan when he was little that caffeine was bad for you.  He listened and hasn't wavered from that course.  It's a shame that I didn't tell him that sugary sodas were bad for you.  I told him that it was ok for him to drink some of the Barq's.  He was dumbfounded.  We had a conversation that went something like this:

Jonathan (full of 14 year old attitude):  But, you said that caffeine is bad for you.
Me:  You are 14 now.  A little bit of caffeine isn't going to kill you.
Jonathan (again, full of 14 year old attitude) So what are you saying, a whole lot of caffeine will kill me?

Then, the kid huffed off without having any root beer.  I have to admire him for not giving in and having any caffeine.  When he was little, I must have really convinced him that caffeine was the root of all evil!

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Blessings


The Lord will bless us as we attend to the sacred ordinance work of the temples.  Blessings there will not be limited to our temple service.  We will be blessed in all of our affairs.

- Boyd K. Packer

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Ma and Pa


I sent a letter to Jonathan's ma and pa thanking them for taking such good care of him during trek.  I figured their job wasn't easy and I wanted them to know that I was thankful for their hard work.  They looked us up and sent Fred an email.  This is what we received.

Brother and Sister Fortenberry,
We got your note and we are so glad that Jonathan had a good time on trek. Up until he got hurt he was always willing to push or pull the handcart. He was always easy to have a conversation with when things got slow. We are proud of him for pressing on in the heat and long days. Thanks for raising such a great young man.

Two things came to mind.  1) I thought that was the sweetest e-mail ever and 2) I know Jonathan well enough to read between the lines.  He was dramatic when he hurt his knee and he talks a lot.  Still, I was relieved to know that his ma and pa seemed to appreciate his uniqueness.

Friday, March 21, 2014

And We Walked


The other day, Jessie and I stopped off at the CVS to drop off a prescription.  I had to rummage around in the backseat before we went in.  For some reason, I chose to lock the door using the lock on the inside of my door handle rather than my key fob.  Well, have you ever had one of those uneasy feelings?  That is exactly what I had when I locked my door.  As soon as we came back out to the car, we discovered my keys locked inside my car.  They were sitting right there on my backseat.  Fred was reffing that night.  To my daughter's dismay, I didn't want to bother anyone, so we started walking.  It wasn't quite 2 miles home - when you drive - except that the sidewalk didn't go in a straight line.  What is that about?  Why would they make a winding sidewalk.  I guess it gave us some extra exercise.  We joked and had a good time on the way home.  Our feet had blisters and the blisters had blisters.  I kept thinking that my shoes had stretched out over the walk, but I realized that they were actually a 1/2 a size too big.  Jessica's shoes were just wallered (is that such a word) out.

We headed home to get the spare set of keys and then I was going to change shoes and walk back to retrieve my car.  We were spotted by a family from church.  Thank goodness.  It must have taken us awhile to walk, because they went home and the teenage daughter came back out after us.  She got us just as we were turning into our subdivision.  She took us back for my car.  I am so thankful for that sweet girl, because my callouses on the bottom of my feet still hurt from those stupid shoes.  If it weren't for the shoes, it would have been a perfectly lovely evening!

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Faith in Every Footstep

Pioneer Trek helps Little Elm, North Texas teens appreciate past

Brayden McGovern learned about the hardships his pioneer ancestors endured from stories heard and read, but the Little Elm teen, like his peers, couldn’t fully appreciate their enormous sacrifice.

Then he went on a pioneer trek.

McGovern, 16, and his 14-year-old sister, Cassidy, were among 404 North Texas teens with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who participated in a pioneer trek reenactment over three days at Ray Roberts Lake State Park in Denton County.

The youth, aged 14 to 18, spent part of their Spring Break pulling and pushing handcarts dressed in old fashioned clothing, over a challenging 15-mile course to get a taste of the arduous journey Mormon pioneers experienced some 150 years ago crossing the Plains.

“I don’t even think we scratched the surface of what the pioneers went through,” McGovern said. “I think they had a lot of faith, and they didn’t let anything stand in their way.”

For the reenactment, the high school students left their cell phones and other electronic devises at home to fully immerse themselves in pioneer life.

The goal was to help today’s youth appreciate the sacrifices and faith of the pioneers, and the extreme difficulties they endured.

“We want the kids to know they can do hard things,” said Brent Argyle, the trek director, who oversaw the event with his wife, Shahna. “This gives them an appreciation for what their ancestors went through and a spiritual experience. Hopefully, they will take this experience and realize they can get through any difficulty.”

Walking in their footsteps

To authentically recreate how the pioneers made their journey, the trekkers were divided into families led by “ma and pa” adults, many of whom had their own teens participating in the reenactment. Several “families” made up a company, replicating how Mormon pioneers organized themselves to travel west.

Each participant dressed in authentic pioneer clothing for the entire three days. Women wore long skirts, long-sleeved blouses, dresses, bonnets, and aprons. Men wore canvas or cotton pants, long-sleeved shirts, hats and suspenders. Comfortable footwear was allowed.

There were 56 handcarts resembling large shallow wheelbarrows assembled for the trek, with most of the work done by the youth and adult leaders. The carts’ steel-rimmed wheels, which are stronger than wooden wheels, were made by Amish craftsman. The carts replicated what Mormon pioneers used as the migrated west from Iowa beginning in 1856, arriving in the Salt Lake area of Utah. Earlier pioneers arrived by horse-drawn wagon in the Salt Lake area as early as the 1840s. The legacy of the Mormon pioneers are part of 19th Century American history.

Each trek group with six to nine youth and the “ma and pa,” pulled and pushed a handcart piled with only a few provisions – water, clothes, and light camping gear – over a rugged course with thick woods, river crossings and steep inclines and descents.

“It’s been eye-opening,” said Cameron Steed, 17, of Prosper. “The crossing of the river and going up steep hills was difficult. It makes me appreciate what the pioneers had to endure.”

Replicating Pioneer Life

On the first day, the group hiked five miles, arriving at camp at Roadside Park ahead of schedule. Each family cooked their meals in a Dutch oven and camped in tents with the boys separate from the girls.

Entertainment each night was in keeping with what the brave forebears had available to them and had been planned by the trekkers, including music with simple acoustic instruments, a bluegrass number, and a hoedown for the youth. Then, each family separated from the group to hold a nightly devotional. Each morning, the group awoke early to the sound of an LDS hymn played by someone on a French horn.

The second day’s hike of seven miles proved tougher.

At one point, the females in each group –– the adult ma and the young women –– were purposely left without the males to pull the carts through a water crossing and up a steep switch back. This recalled what many pioneer women experienced making the journey west without husbands and sons. And it left a significant impression on the participants.

“It was inspirational to see the girls equal to the task ahead of them and to watch as the trial empowered them to be stronger,” said Little Elm’s Jeni Rawlins, a “ma” who led the girls in her “family” through the tough terrain.

The group camped the second evening at Elk Point and entertainment included musical numbers and inspirational devotional messages by local church leaders.

An experience to remember

On the final day, with the threat of heavy rain looming in the Dallas Metroplex, the group tackled the most difficult part of the course, a three-mile stretch of steep hills and a river crossing.

Some of the boys carried their “family” members, who were exhausted from the difficult hike and a lack of sleep, on their backs across the river. It took several trips to get everyone across. This selfless act was a way to remember an especially heart-wrenching story of the Latter-day Saints crossing Wyoming in 1856 with the Willy and Martin handcart companies. A devastating snowstorm left the groups starving and freezing, and many died. Three young men were responsible for carrying 500 people across the icy Sweetwater River to safety. Later, all three boys died of ailments caused from exposure to the elements. The groups were eventually rescued by the Saints and brought to the Salt Lake Valley.

When the trekkers reached the Isle du bois entrance of the state park, it replicated the LDS Saints coming into the Salt Lake Valley from their arduous journey. Families that arrived first cheered on the later ones. The heavy storm that was predicted came through North Texas right after the trek concluded.

The reenactment required about a year of planning and involved 158 adult “mas and pas” and dozens of others lending support including trail guides, food handlers, equipment movers, medical professionals and others.

At the state park, the scene of some 560 people dressed in old fashioned clothes pulling handcarts attracted the attention of park-goers including bikers, hikers and tourists, some of whom stopped for photos with the group.

The LDS Church in many parts of the United States holds youth trek every three or four years. It gives high school students an opportunity to connect with their ancestors and helps them build their character. The experience allows them to draw on their inner strength throughout their lives to deal with difficulties.


http://starlocalmedia.com/littleelmjournal/pioneer-trek-helps-little-elm-north-texas-teens-appreciate-past/article_91c5b15e-af9f-11e3-8cc7-0019bb2963f4.html#.UypuFeKT2O4.facebook

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

A Priceless Heritage


I went on the Trek website and they are slowly posting pictures.  There are tons of them and they all look alike to me.  I am sure there were pictures of Jonathan and I didn't even realize it.  However, thanks to the fact that he changed into bright blue shorts for the river crossing, I easily recognized this one.  They didn't get any of them in the water only trying to get started.  Jonathan says the river crossing was his favorite part.  He certainly looks interesting in his blue shorts and pioneer-wear.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

This is How it Happened


Apparently, my mom knows exactly how my arms ended up in such a mess. I got this message from her:

I just read your blog. Do you remember when we had a birthday party for Mother in Greenville at that little house on Wesley (some party place)? You made fun of my "wings". That could be what happened to your arms as in "What goes around, comes around".

She seriously remembers the day, the time, and the street that it all took place! So, the moral of the story is never make fun of a lady's bat wings, folks! You shall end up with them yourself. I'm just sayin'!

Monday, March 17, 2014

How Did This Happen

(Disregard the toilet paper diaper)

Have you ever looked in the mirror and realized that you have old lady arms?  That is exactly what happened to me. I keep them covered with a jacket at all times and worry about what I'm going to do when the summer hits.  After all, there will be times this summer when I just can't where a jacket!  I have been working out with weights and ask Fred every day what he thinks about my arms.  He smiles, nods and says, "Yep, they look good to me."  Poor guy!  Mostly they look like a skinny bone with a small little muscle.  And, we just won't talk about my triceps...

I just keep wondering, how did this happen?

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Joy in the Journey



Jonathan got home safe and sound yesterday.  He reported that the food was delicious, he liked his family, his Ma and Pa were Brother and Sister Carlson from the 4th Ward and his favorite part was crossing the river.  He said that he wore all the clothes we packed for him... except for his socks and underwear!  They weren't able to shower, but we had strongly urged him to stay clean.  He came home not stinking so we think he had used deodorant and washed off.  I guess he didn't think clean underwear was a necessity!

I am thankful for waterproof mascara, because church was just too much for me today.  Hearing the testimonies of the sweet youth was so special.  Trek was such a testimony building experience for them.  I cried like a baby, but Fred held strong.  That is until Jaxon Moffitt sang Savior, Redeemer of my Soul.  It felt good to see Fred wiping tears away.  I told Jaxon that it takes a lot make Fred cry!

I am so grateful that our youth had the opportunity to participate in this reenactment and that they got to learn just a little bit what the pioneers went through.  The theme for Trek was Joy in the Journey and the kids were smiling in every picture that I saw.  They truly were finding Joy in the Journey.  I am so proud of these extraordinary youth and I love working with them each week.  They have such a sweet spirit.

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Sisterly Advice for Trek


Jonathan left for his pioneer trek on Thursday and he gets back in just a few short hours.  They have had great weather this time.  And, judging from the pictures I've seen posted, everyone looks relatively happy and healthy.  Before leaving for trek, we worked hard to educate Jonathan on the Mormon pioneers so that he would have a respect and understanding for what they went through.  We prayed every night that he would have a spiritual experience while there and that this would help build his testimony.  All of this helped to send him on his way pretty excited and not as nervous as he was when they started talking about trek earlier this year.

Jessie sent him on his way with a few Trek tips and tricks:

  • Double up on socks.
  • Make sure your sleeping bag isn't too big.  You will be sleeping with your other brothers.
  • Don't expect to be with someone from your ward.
  • Take turns pushing and pulling the cart.
  • You will be up early in the morning.
  • Get to know your family.
  • People will complain on your journey.  Ignore it and focus on what your are doing.
  • Do not pick up sticks.  
  • Your older brothers can be really cool.
  • Dessert is pretty good!
  • When it's time for bed make sure to sleep.  When it's time to get up, you gotta be quick.  
  • Make sure you put on deodorant.  This isn't school.  You will sweat hard core and you will stink.
  • Stay hydrated.
  • Wipe the dirt off and change your socks.  
  • If you are having problems or missing home, talk to your Ma and Pa.
  • If it gets hard at times, remember to 'just keep swimming.'
  • If you and your brothers and sisters don't get along, Ma and Pa will be there for guidance.
  • I love you, Bud.
I love her sisterly advice!  We aren't sure why she was worried about the sticks, though.  


Thursday, March 13, 2014

North Texas Teens Unplug for Pioneer Trek


FRISCO –– A group of 600 North Texas teens will unplug over Spring Break and take part in a large-scale, three-day, authentic pioneer trek re-enactment pulling hand carts.

The youth will dress in period pioneer clothing and pull hand carts over a challenging 15-mile course, led by “ma and pa” adults, to experience what the early pioneers endured some 150 years ago crossing the plains.

The event, sponsored by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, takes place Thurs. March 13 through Sat. March 15 at Ray Robert Lake State Park. It starts March 13, 9 a.m. at Greenbelt 380 Park in Aubrey and ends March 15, 12 p.m. at Ray Roberts State Park, Isle du Bois entrance.

The 56 handcarts being used for the trek were assembled by the youth and Church members, with the steel-rimmed wheels made by Amish craftsmen. They were built to replicate what early Mormon pioneers used to transport their belongings as they migrated West from the 1840s to 1860s, arriving in the Salt Lake area of Utah.

No electronic devices will be allowed during the trek for the teens, who are aged 14 to 18, and live in Frisco, Prosper, Celina, McKinney, The Colony and Little Elm.

The trek, held every four years, is intended to help today’s youth appreciate the hardship of the early pioneers and give them a spiritual experience. They will also enjoy activities and music, similar to how pioneers relied on supplying their own entertainment.

The trek ends with a church service and a re-enactment of the groups arriving in the Salt Lake Valley, which will be at Ray Robert Lake State Park, Isle du Bois entrance.

http://yourfrisco.dallasnews.com/2014/03/12/north-texas-teens-unplug-for-pioneer-trek/

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

800th Post

Spread love everywhere you go.  Let no one come to you without leaving happier.  -Mother Teresa

Yesterday marked the 800th post on this little blog.  Who would have ever guessed.  As the kids have grown, I feel like the blog has grown stale, but it is still my corner of the world where I can record my thoughts.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Diaper Diva


Jessie and I recently attended a baby shower for our good friend, Stacey.  We are so excited for Stacey and Abie, because we have known Abie forever!  I sometimes think that Fred loves Abie more than he loves me.  We call Abie and Fred, FRABIE.  They are pretty cute together and have lots of date nights.  This baby is going to be hard for this couple!

I love Angela, but she can't get enough of this diapering game.  Every time we have a baby shower, we end up playing the diaper game.  Lucky for me, Tanya was my partner.  As you can tell, Tanya is super crafty and was able to construct quite the toilet paper diaper.  We were the big winners.  This diaper was almost too pretty to take off!

I am so blessed to have such great friends that I love enough to let them wrap toilet paper around my body!

Monday, March 10, 2014

Sweepstakes

Such cuties, Jonathan's band earned a Superior rating in both their stage and sight reading performances.  Here they are posing with their Sweepstakes trophy! 

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Seriously???


Am I the only the only wife that has to endure these type of texts?  If I send a text in the middle of the day that says I love you, then I am usually met with suspicion.  It's a good thing I find the humor in his response.  I think I'll keep him!

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

God's Landmarks

"When you read the Book of Mormon, concentrate on the principal figure in the book - from its first chapter to the last - the Lord Jesus Christ." - Russell M. Nelson

Our Young Women participated in a Book of Mormon Read-a-thon this weekend.  They read for 17 hours.  I participated in the last 7 hours.  I wish I could have been with them for the entire 17 hours, because it was so incredibly amazing.  You can't imagine what it was like to sit and read the scriptures for that many hours.  Everyone should do it!  What made it so special is that we did it together and we did it reverently.  The Holy Ghost was present the entire time we were there.  The girls were so wonderful.  They were tired, but never complained.

We had guest readers that would come and read with us for 30 minute blocks.  Some read for longer than 30 minutes and never realized that they gave longer than their allotted time.  The last several were so amazing with the girls.  They stopped and explained principles with the girls, shared their personal experiences and would become overcome with emotion at times.  The last couple of hours were the best, for sure.  

We made it through Alma 31 and the girls were challenged to finish by Girls Camp on June 9th.  Lucky for us, we had an ice day yesterday.  I sat with my scriptures all morning.  I wanted to bridge the gap between where I was personally in my scriptures and where I started with the girls on Saturday.  I have officially read everything from 1 Nephi through Alma 31.  

Everyone that participated was touched by the activity and was able to increase their testimony in some way.  I am so thankful for such a wonderful activity, great leaders to serve with and beautiful sweet young women.  I love the scriptures and have a testimony of their truthfulness.

"The scriptures are the word of God.  They are God's landmarks that show the way we should travel in order to draw closer to our Savior and reach worthy goals." - President Dieter F. Uchtdorf